You must be from Canada or across the ocean? :)Remeron is another name for Mirtazapine and.... (Seroquel)..., they have dicontinued in Canada and Europe I have been told.
The side effect I had from Lexapro....I got really more depressed and couldn't sleep, had no energy and no interest in sex at all. But give it a try,it didn't seem to be that hard to get off of. I have a terrible time with most drugs, I have tried Celexa, Prozac Zoloft and one other I can't remember.
Good luck